Being a neighbour should be a pleasure. If you do not keep certain common courtesies, you can become a pest. To remain a pleasure, there are neighbourhood rules to imbibe.
Introduce yourself
Whether you are new in the neighbourhood or not, introduce yourself. Say hello and share or ask questions like: ‘Where’s the nearest market?’ or ‘when the garbage truck come?’
Be aware of shared walls
If you are in a terrace, condominium, semi-detached house or any structure where you and other tenants share adjacent living spaces, position noisy household appliances such as washing machines, TVs and speakers away from partition walls. If you live above someone, consider putting linoleum or rubber matting underneath your appliances to deaden or muffle the noise, and remember that someone downstairs can hear you walking around so minimise how often you wear high heels indoors.
Control your dog
Keep your dog on a leash if it has a habit of running rampant on your neighbours’ property. If you have a particularly noisy dog, this may also become a source of contention for other residents.
Don’t play loud music
It is absolutely rude for music to keep blaring from tour speakers; neighbours are entitled to some peace and quiet. If you want to play some music, make sure only those in your house can hear it.
Learn parking etiquette
When you park your vehicle, be sure not to block anyone’s access, or make them have to pull out of a very tight spot. Do not over-rev the engine of your car early in the morning or late at night. Park in front of your home, not theirs. Avoid slamming your doors or shining your headlights into your neighbor’s windows late at night.
Give an alert on your parties
If you are planning a party, be sure to inform them and letting on when it is going to start and how long you expect it to go on. Invite them too but stick to your agreed arrangements and ask your guests to be considerate when leaving.
Keep your garden tidy
The presence of weeds in your yard is not only unsightly but can also spread to theirs. Mow your lawn regularly and keep your flowers, trees, and bushes trimmed appropriately. Put equipment away as soon as you are finished with it.
Control your bonfire
Even your barbecue or backyard fire. Position it where the smoke and smell will least likely blow their property. Notify them in advance of your intentions, since they might have been planning to dry their clothes outside on that very same day!
Put rubbish/garbage out on the right day
If you accidentally miss the collection, bring it back onto your property immediately and try to contain it well. Garbage can attract vermin, insects, and other pests, and is also unsightly.
Communicate
Confer with them regularly and keep them in the loop. Remember the golden rule and if anything you are planning to do may affect them, minimise it and let them know in advance. Keep the channels of communication open by reminding them that if you are doing anything, which disturbs them, they should feel comfortable approaching you about it.
Mind your surroundings
Even if you are not in a “neighbourhood watch” community, keep your eye on anyone acting suspiciously around the area. When in doubt, call the police so they can quickly curtail any criminal activity.
Sidewalks and walkways
It is wonderful when a neighbourhood has sidewalks for its residents to use. Unfortunately, there is always at least one inconsiderate person in the neighbourhood that does not seem to understand that a sidewalk is for everyone’s use, and it is not just a slab of concrete that happens to run in front of his house. Check that your section of sidewalk is clear at all times.